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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 10:24

How does one succeed in life?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Does not procrastinate.

Do you think most people would rather be a certain race or are most people happy with the race they are?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What's your love story?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What is the most inappropriate experience you have had with a friend's daughter?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Thinking from a spiritual perspective, can we say that the journey in recovering from narcissistic abuse a battle of spiritual warfare? Any thoughts on this?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

That's it for today.

Recently, I cleared my JP Morgan coding round. Next, I received mail for a video interview. What kind of questions are asked in this round? How do I prepare myself?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can you maintain self-control?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Procrastinates a lot.

Is the Democrat party connected with organized crime in America?

Ask yourself:

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Making more friends is a goal.

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What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What is one thing which you cannot stop however hard you try?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why would a man be interested in an ordinary woman while there are very beautiful and fabulous women?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.